Time and again people have tried to understand love. What does it look like? Can you see it? Love is a funny thing. I’m no expert in this dance. I have fallen in friendship and in love. And I’m just someone who observes things around her.
Shakespeare wrote “Love is the most beautiful of dreams and worst of nightmares” . This heterogenous concept is complex and diverse. There are so many types of love, romantic love, empty love, pretentious love or blind love. The problem is that many of us cannot really distinguish what kind of love we are experiencing.
In relationships,with great expectations come the potential for great disappointments. Sometimes,when the fundamental expectations are not met in a close relationship, there will be a feeling of hurt and disappointment. As a result,you may feel a lack of reciprocity in the relationship.
When we dont love people, what happens to them is unlikely to affect us. Love hurts because it makes us worry about our loved ones more than average. One of life’s ironies is that your strength could be your weakness. Perhaps a source of happiness could also be a source of anguish. This is the nature of life. With time I’ve noticed that the feeling of hurt is learnt. And theres always some way to dispose it. Who came first, You or hurt?
Sometimes, you feel you cant do anything anymore.You’ve been hit by a loss. Depression is a feeling that is easy to fall into but difficult to come back from. But it’s not the end of the world. Think positive! No matter how knotty things may seem. Let the cat out of the bag. Talk to your loved ones and close friends. You cant bottle up your sadness and except things to get better. Distraction can ease your mind too. Keep yourself busy in some productive things. Focus on things, that can clear your mind. And once it’s clear, you can face the depression and solve internal conflicts that you have.
Depression is a state of mind. If you have the will to get over it, then you can surely welcome smiling days back, again.